Internet Relationships5 Are We Similar?
January 31, 2010
Online the psychology is very much the same as only the form of communication is new and unique to many. We are all very much the same, on the net or in real life. Being able to open up who you are and relating is critical to your success.
You know, it is not easy for me to disclose myself this way. We are alike, you and me, in that respect. We hide our selves from the world. We keep our insecurities, doubts, weaknesses, and needs under cover. Maybe we are just saying, I do not want you to give me the things I need because I have asked for them. I do not want your charity or pity. I just want your love and respect.”
So we conceal our deepest longings. Like some ghost in a closet, making sure we earn that which we hope and need from others. Maybe that’s all right. At any ratet that is the way it seems to be.
So why do I bother going through this unnatural process?
Because I do not believe there is much difference between us. We have traveled separate paths to get this way or perhaps different roads to end up in the same place. Our emotional temperatures may vary. However look beneath the surface and you will see we are really quite alike.
We all long to be needed. wanted and truly loved. We want to mean something to someone. We need appreciation, satisfaction, recognition, acceptance, fulfillment, and a whole lot of other things that we reach out for from inside.
Most others are like you and me. Remember, to the degree you give others what they need. They will give you what you need.
And what do others need? All we need to do is look within ourselves, and you will find that which exists in others. What they need, you need. What is closest to your heart emotionally is also closest to theirs. You are your own measuring device, your own barometer, of what you are in need to give in order to get what you need from life. These things we know inside but somehow never seem to realize. Can you relate?
Internet Relationship Psychology with Rick Shoop of IMO-Networker.com Internet Psychology is an important part of success on the internet. Enjoy this Internet Psychology Article. Basic Training in relationships for the real world applies to the internet as well.


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